Thoughts & Quotes

I have a right to be treated with respect as an intelligent , capable and equal human being
I have a right to state my own needs and set my own priorities as a person independant of any roles that I may assume in life
I have a right to express my feelings
I have a right to express my feelings and values
I have a right to say 'No' or 'Yes' for myself
I have a right to say 'No' or 'Yes' for myself
I have a right to make mistakes
I have the right to change my mind
I have a right to say 'I don't understand' and to ask for more information
I have a right to ask for what I want
I have a right to deal with others without being dependent on them for approval
Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why we call it the present.
Our real problem is not our strength today; it is rather the vital necessity of action today to ensure our strength tomorrow.
Say to yourself each morning "I do not need the reactions of others to validate myself or my personality"
Truly, it is in darkness that one finds the light, so when we are in sorrow, then this light is nearest to us.
When it is dark enough you can see the stars.
The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
Friendship improves happiness and abates misery by doubling our joy and dividing our grief
Believe that life is worth living, and your belief will help create the fact

Ok, so I don't really know how to write this... but here it goes.

My mum currently drinks about two bottles of wine a night in the pub, she always comes home drunk. It started when she split up with my step dad, she drank about 2-3 glasses a night & from there it's got worse to her current 6 glasses a night. The break up wasn't nasty or violent or anything that could have turned her to drinking & it's only got worse since she got with her current partner.

She smokes about 20 cigarettes a day too.

I moved quite far away with her & her partner in her fantasy of a new life, new family.etc but now I spend my nights at home alone whilst they're in the pub. They quite often drink at home too.

I'm so worried about my Mum & have tried to tell her about my concerns but she gets defensive, aggressive & often tells me to "get off her back".

It's literally killing me to sit here & watch my mum kill herself with alcohol & cigarettes. I desperately want to get her to stop or even cut down but I don't know how.

Please someone help me.