Children of Addicted Parents and People

Hiya my name is Lisa, i am 26 years old and my mum has been an alcoholic all my life. I left my mum and dad's house when i was 21 as i thought that if i was not around it then my mums alcoholism could not affect me, i was soo wrong if anything now its worse.

I dont know if anyone elses parents do this but my mum when she is drinking disappears for weeks sometimes without any contact. Its the worst feeling in the world not knowing where she is, if she is ok its horrible. For years my dad has stood by my mum, until now he has finally decided he has had enough and that they should split up.

In a way i can totally understand why he has finally decided to leave, i have two older brothers and we have moved out and have our own lives so he has no reason to stick around when my mum clearly doesnt want the help. However i cant help but think where does this leave my mum, im just soo worried.

Anyone else been through anything similar would love to hear from you.