My dad's an alcoholic. He won't accept he has a drink problem. My mum thinks he's depressed and he's afraid of dying. When he's drunk he swears and he doesn't do that when he's sober. My mum goes to AA meetings for friends and family, but I'm fed up of them saying it's not the drinker's fault, and there's nothing you can do to stop them drinking. I just think if he cared about his family he would at least try to stop. I'm too embarressed to tell anyone that he's an alcoholic. Then I read some of the stories on here, and I think that I don't have it that bad and maybe I should just leave it, but my dad's slowly killing himself. I don't know what to do.