last night my mum told my dad that she was banning alcohol mondays - thursdays in the house, my mum is'nt going to drink on theese days as she has banned it for herself on thoose days but my dad when she said this refused he was like im not doing that, i will go to the pub and drink, my mum then told him you dont have to not drink, its just me who isnt goiing to drink on theese days, so then my dad said good. i dont get it though, my mum wants my dad to stop drinking every night and drink less, but when she says shes banning it he refuses and says if its being banned here im going to the pub, yet when he refuses she says you dont have to not drink its just me. im confussed one minuet its like my mum and dad are arguing about my dads drinking and my mums telling my dad he needs to stop drinking, but then the next minuet shes telling him ok you dont have to not drink, but im not. i dont know if my mum wants my dad to stop drinking or not, and then the next time theyre arguing my mums yelling at him to stop drinking agian. i tried talking to my tutor at college agian i dont know if i want to talk to my tutor agian, i just keep telling her the same thing each week, i feel as though my tutor is getting fed up of me complaining about my dad.